Archive for October, 2016


Monday, October 31st, 2016

ENNEAGRAM The word derives from Greek, meaning nine-sided geometric figure, represented by a nine-pointed star within a circle. The circle represents the world and the 9 points, the different ways of perceiving. No enneatypes is better or worse than another, simply, everyone is different. Each enneatypes virtues attributed to him and a few basic flaws that have come to be compared with the nine deadly sins, a connoisseur of the Enneagram. It's a way to systematize our bright side and dark, trying to enhance those strengths that are in us, and trying to understand, accept and soften the darkest.

While the virtues symbolize the forces that drive towards growth and personal development, the defects represent the forces that drive a conflict behaviors, analyze the positive and negative duality will allow us greater understanding of oneself, and to develop in the more line to make us happy. The balance between two emerging individual differences enneatypes. Within the same enneatypes, we can more or less evolved, as we have more developed or other characteristics of our personality is more, it makes sense that we are not an exclusively or purely enneatypes, but to be a confluence of no more than 3 of them, and all of them complementary. Understanding the weaknesses or shortcomings of each enneatypes leads to us to find our true essence and understand what we are at an all inclusive. They have classified the 9 types into three groups: warm, cerebral and visceral. – The group of HEARTFELT or emotional: enneatypes constituted by 2, 3 and 4, were characterized by their desire for friendly relations and their need to please others. The two assumes the role of helper and so affectionate acts, the three shows its positive side, depending on the social conventions of the time, and four tries to express himself as someone presenting original and different.

– The group of brain or analytical: what form the enneatypes 5, 6 and 7. His greatest fear is to confront the existential. Thus, the blanket 5 is aware, the six rebels against the authority and 7 avoids the fear and unpleasant emotions in general. – The group of visceral or intuitive: enneatypes composed of 8, 9 and 1, focuses its problems in impulsivity and anger. While expressing his anger shuns eight, nine known its own ability and an aggressive represses. While it is true that the best relationships are between enneatypes the same group, communication with the remaining balance is needed to staff each in particular. To best understand that it can be assigned a number and a name to each end, thus constituting the nine different types of personality: 1. (Passion Ira) (perfectionist) 2. (Passion Pride) (fake love) 3. (Vanity Passion) (deception / appearance) 4. (Passion Envy) (dissatisfaction) & lt; p align = "justify" 5. (Passion Greed) (detachment) 6. (Passion Fear) (accuser) 7. (Passion Gula) (indulgence) 8. (Lust) (punishment) 9. (Passion Indolence / Sloth) (forget) There are many theories about the meaning, I leave one that looks interesting: I attached also a free text both in English and Castilian version, which you must indicate the types to be reliably which you approach over a natural way. .


Tuesday, October 25th, 2016

During the period of social transformation is often an intimate relationship between man and woman were reduced only to the satisfaction of physiological needs. During such periods, spread the theory of "socialization of women", "winged" and "wingless" eros, "a glass of water", "trial marriage", etc., in which the notions of love prima , a woman was considered as "a servant of public adultery. The emergence of love as a moral and aesthetic sense, recognition, social and moral values of love relationships, the humanization of social relations, increasing moral and aesthetic culture of human aestheticization libido. The complexity of loving feelings from the fact that in it, as the focus, intertwined opposites biological and spiritual, personal and social, intimate and meaningful society. Eliminate contradictions between opposites in each case can lead to absolutism at the individual level of any of the parties.

In this regard, the ancient Greeks distinguish between types of love or phase: "Eros" – a spontaneous desire for possession of the beloved, the love-passion that leaves no room for compassion, mercy, "branch" – love, friendship, affection of one individual to another, due to social ties and individual choice, "Storge" – love-affection, affection, especially family, "modus" – Love-a game that is not marked depth of feeling, "agape" – love is gentle, self-sacrifice, sacrificial, forgiving, which is expressed in an effort to dissolve the lover's favorite. Researchers have isolated a number of types of love of culture, which reflect the caste and class and ethno-cultural characteristics. A romantic type of love of culture is associated with an inspirational love medieval knight to the lady of his circle.


Thursday, October 20th, 2016

The same culture that strengthens imediatistas and harmful behaviors demands self-control on the part of the people in relation the diverse stiffener behaviors kept for conditional. The majority of the times is given to a personal responsibility, as if all this responsibility was inherent to the individual, placing this responsible organism as total for behaviors that had been shaped and strengthened for its proper culture. We do not have to appeal the mentalistas explanations to understand the behavior of the individual that does not have self-control, that he is impulsive, or can itself also be said that it is an irresponsible citizen, consumes in surplus without if abiding by the future consequences. For Skinner, the ideal would be an analysis of the external 0 variable that if relate with the organism, and affirms that the difficulty in if holding to get future consequences, can be the explanation of innumerable social problems, as the consumerism without ' ' conscincia' ' to be if holding alone at the moment, however the result can in the long run be drastic. Therefore, to think behavior of the involved individual with the world, is placed in a way of principle of order with the same, in the measure where these relations can be modified will be able to change the behavior. The manipulation for social medias makes with that many individuals are taken to the consumerism of varied products.

We are conditional to a life of basic satisfactions, stimulated for cultural the ideological game. Being the full consumerism of contradictions, one searchs with this to create varied forms of ' ' to cover buracos' ' , to delude itself with the material to forget the life, &#039 real; ' to place the feet in cho' '. Consumerism in a marxist vision and other authors who apiam Marx: Botelho (2002) affirms that in the great metropolises contemporaries, the behavior of certain individuals ahead of affective lack, sadness, solitude, tension, estresse or simple tdio, goes to the purchases.

Control Of Personal Finance

Tuesday, October 11th, 2016

It’s the end of the month and for all is a joy to see our accounts and know that “at last, and paid.” They have not passed or two hours from the time of leaving work and the streets, malls, supermarkets, shops, etc. are overcrowded. Credit cards are slid on readers, you hear a steady beep, beep, beep for each item that is bought and paid. We would hope that the machines were quick to charge and go home. Then, four days of the new month, check your wallet and you only have $ 15.

Then check your bank account (“perchance there is something there”) and see that you only have $ 2.59 and available balance, and to finish the bills start coming to power, water, gas, phone, credit cards … and what to do? To request an advance? Upload everything to your credit card? I make a loan? and again and again we promise that we will not fall into the same error. It will not pay us enough? Life is too expensive? The money “is no longer the same”? or spending more than they win? If As I win .. She know how much expense? Most things in life travel on wheels of money, have control of finance is to have a satisfying life without debts, without worry and with security. Hundreds of pages on the Internet talking about “get rich”, “Read and Grow Rich”, “Take a vacation and have economic freedom” but if I get rich and I have no control of my finances where I started and maybe finish it worse. Best is to learn to manage what little I have, because when I do not have much drive you wild and enjoy with family and loved ones. Take control of money and not money controlling you.