Happiness is man’s greatest achievement: is the response of their total personality to a productive orientation toward himself and toward the outside world Eric From. The vast majority of those who read this article will have integrated with someone who has been selected to be friend, partner, girlfriend, wife, lover, accompanying him in this short transit through the dimension of perishable forms, some not s erred in his selection, others probably feel frustrated, just as there are those who share their happiness and try this enduresbut who still walk after the search or wish to be fully integrated so that you can share everything there what they allow you to grow. It is very important in a relationship that always rises up the authenticity, transparency of actions, not fear criticism, disagreements, feed constant share, communicate, discuss the concerns and specially to feed the spirits with a sincere affection, affection, a built-in love for one another. In a real integration cannot be allowed that she is penetrating the negative things, those stimuli that are surfacing for not being attentive, seeking separation, the destruction of everything that was built with the conviction of peace, happiness, a real union. Unable to one stop in the frivolities and weaknesses thing as imperfect beings that we commit, in contrast to evoke the beauties and virtues of the small stuff that are manifested. No feed on the incensateces, destructive, criticism of jealousy, otherwise, pay attention to the good things that person has. Luis Verdecchia reminds us, that we consider some thoughts, I believe important in our growth in order to achieve, reach, good integration, such as: I love you for that you’ve done for me, more than any creed or any philosophy would have done for my happiness. You’ve done all of that in my life without touching me, if lecturing me, without scolding me, without claim me, without accusing me to have performed this miracle in my life, just being What are you, because you’ve come to teach me which is the true essence of love and I dare to add, because you have achieved true integration and share what you feel to everything that can be added, that when we integrate ourselves we do not depend on, but to share independence with the selected person.